
Botswana Bulletin – Thirty Seventh Edition
“I’ll miss you Botswana”
“I’ll miss you Botswana”
May 21, 2009
Greetings from an increasingly colder
Gaborone, Botswana! Yes, it’s coming
around to my favourite time of year here in Botswana...winter! Honestly, winter is the best time of
year. The weather doesn’t get too hot
(maybe 20-25ºC by midday) and the temperatures drop quite dramatically at night
(between 0ºC-5ºC). I always sleep better
in the winter. In the summer when night
time temperatures can still be above 30ºC, it can get pretty
uncomfortable. For the lucky ones with
air conditioning (like me) sleeping at night is a little easier, but nothing
beats the naturally cooler weather.
Perhaps the reason I like it is because it’s just nice to have a change
in weather. It is hot here so often that
when the cool air comes it’s just nice to feel something else besides the
blistering sun. As nice as winter is you
have to enjoy it while you can. Winter
weather only sticks around for 2-3 months and then it starts heating up
again. I’m glad my last days here will
be spent during the winter months.
Perhaps my flight home won’t be delayed by a thunderstorm this
time. J
Many have been asking about my departure
dates and exactly when I’ll be where. I
haven’t sorted my summer out quite yet but I now have a confirmed arrival date
in Edmonton. First, I’ll give the
rundown of how I’ll get to Edmonton. As
I mentioned in my last letter I will be leaving Gaborone, Botswana on June 25th. I will arrive in London, England the next day
and spend a little over a week with some friends there. On July 6th I’ll fly from London
to Toronto and spend a few days at the SIM Canada head office. On July 9th I fly from Toronto to
Edmonton and am do to arrive at 8:43pm.
There have been some who have expressed interest in meeting me at the
airport. If you’re interested and able
I’ll be flying with Air Canada on flight AC1161 scheduled to depart Toronto @
6:25pm. If you do meet me at the airport
there is one condition, you must bring either a slurpee or Tim Horton’s Iced
Cap for me. The more the merrier! J
A few people have asked me what I’ll miss
most about Botswana. To me that’s an
easy answer...the people! However, when
I thought about it some more I wondered what things I’d be surprised that I’ll
miss. Like for example, will I actually
grow to miss the crazy driving? I’ll
admit some of the things you see on the road make great conversation pieces. For example, just the other day a combi
(local van taxi) cut me off and then stopped in front of me and waved at me
asking for my approval. What?! How was I supposed to react. “Sure.
Go ahead and cut me off combi driver, oh, and by the way, I appreciate
that you asked for permission after the fact.”
I just ignored him. I was annoyed
at the time but when I look back it was actually pretty funny. The other thing about the driving here is
learning the “code” of the road. Driving
on Botswana roads is alot different than it is in the west. Hazard lights and high beams are used for all
sorts of things that they aren’t used for in the west. A common thing to do if someone is pulling
over to allow you to pass on the highway is to flash your hazard lights as a
“thank you” once you’ve completed the pass.
I’ve had people flash there high beams at me in the middle of the day
which apparently was supposed to mean “you can go”. So if you’re driving in Canada and someone
starts flashing there high beams at you in the middle of the day, don’t worry,
it’s just me. J
One thing I know I will definitely miss is
the tuck shops. This is something that
simply won’t be able to be replaced back home.
For those who don’t know, I typically go “hunting” for lunch during the
week days and I’ve always enjoyed going to local tuck shops (or a “Semausu” in
Setswana) to purchase food from the local people. Two of my favourite tuck shops have been
“Lady M’s” and, well, I’m not entirely sure what the other tuck shop is
called. I usually call it “Segametsi’s”
cause that is the name of the lady who own’s it. Lady M’s is owned by a lady named MmagoB. Our Initial Ministry
Coordinator, Tina Kort, who has been a missionary in Botswana for nearly 30
years, is an old friend of MmagoB and it’s because of Tina that I found this
gem of a tuck shop. My favourite thing
to buy from Lady M's is “Koko le reisi.
Ke rata sehuba!” (Chicken and
rice. I like the breast!) I haven’t been able to get food from Lady M's in a while though. Her tuck
shop is located in front of a furniture store and she was asked to move. She ended up moving across the street but has
since moved again. I’m not sure where
she is now. The government is beginning to
introduce new rules which make tuck shops more difficult to run. In the meantime I’ll just have to enjoy my
chicken and rice while I can.
Chicken and rice is usually what I order
from the tuck shops but you can get different varieties of traditional food as
well which I sometimes have. Some of the
traditional food, like “Madombi” (a large dumpling, kinda like a cinnamon bun
without the cinnamon) is very filling so I’ll only get that if I’m extra
hungry. I find the best part about the
tuck shops is the ”meet and greet” style that each tuck shop has. I’ve always enjoyed heading out to the shops
to practice my Setswana. There is never an
abundance of white people at the tuck shops so I think locals enjoy it when one
comes out, especially if you can order in Setswana. Yep, I’ll definitely miss the tuck shops when
I’m back in Canada. Anyway, I guess
that’s enough about food for now. There
were a few big events during the last two months so let me get back on track
and tell you about them.
Flying Mission recently acquired a new
plane, a King Air 200, and we had a dedication ceremony for the plane in mid
April. We also had another ambulance
dedicated to us by the Rotary Club so we now have 2 ambulances, one stationed in
Francistown the other in Gaborone. So
growth has definitely been happening in our aviation program. Praise the Lord!
Shortly after the dedication I was able to
make a trip up to Zambia to say farewell to some of my friends up there. It was great to reconnect with people that I
haven’t seen in such a long time. I was
even able to play on a worship team together with my manager, Richard
Wheatley. We used to play together on
the worship team at OBC G-West as well as in the band we were both a part of
“Audience of One”. So it was great being
able to play together one last time before I head off. I was able to visit SIM Zambia while I was in
Lusaka as well. A former Flying Mission
co-worker, Diane Vos, is now working for SIM in Zambia so I went to visit her
and she showed me a bunch of the work SIM is doing there which was great. I was only planning to be in Lusaka for just
over a week but plans changed when I attempted to leave Lusaka on a bus. A task easier said than done. J
The plan to get me home was as
follows. I needed to take a bus from
Lusaka to a small village called Choma.
In Choma I was supposed to meet a man who would drive me from Choma to an even smaller village called Macha. I would stay overnight in Macha
and in the morning a Flying Mission plane would arrive that was heading to
Gaborone. I know it sounds like a big
hassle but its alot better than sitting on a bus for 24 hours, which is what I
did to get to Lusaka from Gaborone. So,
on Monday morning I got up nice and early and headed to the Lusaka inner city
bus station to catch the bus to Choma. A
local friend, Eddy, drove me to the bus station and helped me find the right
bus to get on. I bought a ticket and
they said that the bus would be leaving by 7:30am. It was currently 6:30am so I only had 1 hour
to wait which didn’t seem that bad. So,
onto the bus I went to wait. Well as
expected 7:30am came and went. No
problem. Things usually run late in Zambia anyway so I just continued to wait. Well 8:30 came. Then 9:30. Then 10:30. The bus was still at the station! Ok, this seemed kinda strange. So I went to the guy who boarded me onto the
bus and I asked him what the hold-up was.
Well it turns out the bus doesn’t actually leave until it’s full. Great.
So I asked the obvious question.
“When do you think the bus will fill up?” “Only God knows”, was his answer. Indeed.
At this point I’m starting to get a little
concerned. I’m supposed to be meeting a
guy in Choma at 2:00pm to drive me from Choma to Macha. At the rate things were going I thought I may
need a backup plan in case I don’t make it on time. I text messaged the people I know in Macha
and they suggested 2 things. One
suggested I take a cab from Lusaka to Choma.
This was going to be expensive. It’s
like a 4 hour drive! I didn’t really
want to do that. The other option was
that if I got into Choma late I could take a cab from Choma to Macha. This seemed like a good idea but I thought my
chances of catching a taxi would go down the later it got. So I made a decision. I’ll wait until 12:30pm. If the bus still hasn’t left, I’ll call the
trip off and sort out another way home.
Well, 12:30pm came and the bus still hadn’t moved. I had now been on a bus for 6 hours that
hadn’t gone anywhere! I think my
patience has increased since moving to Botswana! J I called Richard and told him what had
happened. He said he would be able to
pick me up on his way to the FMZ office.
So I collected my luggage and went to return my ticket office to
get my money back. Well, it turns out
that was more difficult than I expected as well.
I went to the ticket office and explained
why I had to cancel my trip and asked if I could get my money back. The guy behind the counter said that they
don’t give any refunds for cancellations.
That seemed strange. I looked at
the back of the ticket and it explained that if you cancelled your ticket you
were subject to “a small fee”. When I
pointed this out to the guy he still said that they don’t do that. I was beginning to believe that this guy was
trying to cheat me. After 6 hours of
waiting on “the bus to nowhere” my patience had pretty much worn out. I got angry and called the man a liar and for
that I was pretty much ignored. Richard
was coming for me so I didn’t have time to argue further. I told him I would be back later with the
police.
After returning to the FMZ compound and
looking at all the stunned people who had expected me to be in Botswana, I
explained what had happened. Everyone
believed that I was entitled to some money and if this man wouldn’t give it to
me that I should get the police involved.
So I decided to do just that.
The next day Eddy and I were back at the
bus station. Eddy’s recommendation was
to talk to the police before we approached the ticket office. As it turns out, there was a police station
right at the bus station. So, off we
went. When we got to the police station
there were 2 police women there so we explained to them what had happened. They both agreed that this man was wrong and
owed me money. They decided that this is
what should be done. “Go to the ticket
office, find the man who owes you money, and bring him back here.” Are you kidding? Ok, I decided I would clarify exactly what it
is that she was saying. I said, “Let me
get this straight. Are you giving me the
authority to bring this guy in to the Police?
What if he doesn’t want to come?
Do I have the authority to force him?
You may want to give me a badge and a club.” Well, they ended up changing their
minds. They decided they would give me a
“call out” instead. In plain English I
would call this a “summons”. Basically
it was a letter from the police to this man requesting his presence at the
Police station. Apparently if he refused
this he could get in big trouble. It
was like admitting you were guilty. So
off I went with the letter to the ticket office. I didn’t recognize any of the men behind the
ticket office so I explained what happened the day before, laid the
letter down on the counter and said that one of them would now have to join me
at the police station. Well none of them
wanted anything to do with me at this point.
They didn’t want any trouble, “We just work here” was their reply. It was decided that I needed to talk to the
“big boss”. As it turned out the big
boss was on his way to the ticket office so we waited for him to arrive.
The big boss arrived before long so I once
again explained what had happened. The
big boss went on to tell me that I didn’t understand how the buses ran in
Zambia and that the bus doesn’t run on a schedule. I explained to him that this is something
that should have been explained to me before I bought a ticket. I also pointed out to him what his ticket
said on the back and he did end up coming over to my side. He said that due to my “specific
circumstance” he was willing to depart with some of his money and pay me back
40,000 Kwacha (about $10 Canadian). The
bus ticket only cost about $20 Canadian so it wasn’t a whole lot of money I was
fighting for. To tell you the truth, the
money didn’t matter to me. I just
thought it might be fun to try and get it back!
J
I wasn’t disappointed. So the big
boss offered me the K40,000 and I figured that wasn’t a bad deal so I asked him
what he needed. He said he would need
all my papers (receipts, the callout, etc) he would go over to his main office
and come back with the money. I was
about to hand him over all my papers when Eddy stopped me. He thought that the man may run off with all
of my papers and never return. Without
the papers I have no proof that I purchased a ticket. I agreed with Eddy. Well, this didn’t make the big boss very
happy. He accused Eddy of calling him a
thief! Then Eddy and the big boss
started to argue in Nyanja (the local language in Lusaka). Eventually Eddy turned to me and said that we
should go to the police station to sort this out. That is why we were given a call out in the
first place. The big boss then turned to
me and warned that if we did go to the police that I wouldn’t get my money,
that they would laugh at me, and other such things. Frankly, I didn’t believe that. The police seemed to be on my side, they
already gave me a call out. I figured we
would go test his theory. So, off we went
back to the police station. I could see
why the big boss didn’t want to go to the police station. When we walked in the police women I had
spoken to earlier recognized him and began shouting at him in Nyanja. Eddy translated the argument for me and said
that the police women had heard that he only wanted to give me K40,000 and they
were arguing that I should be getting back more! At one point the big boss got mad at the police women and started to yell at them. From
what I understand that is a great offense in Zambian culture. When this happened an upset looking policeman appeared from
an office at the back of the station. He
went up to the big boss and started to argue with him. He then grabbed the big boss and forcibly
caused him to sit down on a nearby bench.
Apparently the officer wanted this guy to calm down, and boy did it
work. Once the room quieted down I
decided it was my turn to speak. I
explained to the police women that I was happy with the K40,000 and that we
didn’t need to argue about that any further.
The big boss told me to just give him my papers and he would get me the
money. This is where I decided to test
something I had heard about Zambians.
I had been told that in Zambian culture
relationships meant more than paperwork.
If you want to really get something done all the paperwork in the world
wouldn’t beat a personal relationship.
It’s not what you know, it’s who you know. I thought this would be a good test for
that. I had built a relationship with
these police woman. They knew who I was
and they knew who had cheated me. If I
gave up these papers now it shouldn’t matter since the relationship is now
there. So that’s what I did. I gave up my papers to the big boss and said
to him “I trust you.” At that we headed
back to the ticket office.
When we got to the ticket office the big
boss asked me to wait at the ticket office and he would be back shortly with my
money. So off he went. At this point it appeared the big boss was
now ignoring us. He was off doing
everything but getting me my money. At
one point he walked past us with some money and was getting change from the guy
behind the counter. Eddy asked him where
my money was. “It’s coming! This isn’t yours! Be patient!”
So we waited. Finally, the big
boss walked towards me and handed me K40,000 and said to me, “The game is
over.” Indeed, and we had won. J I didn’t actually say that but I wanted
to. One thing I have learned in Africa
is that you need to “save face”. For
those who don’t know what that means it basically means that you shouldn’t
humiliate someone even if they have done a great wrong to you. So I thanked the manager for the money and
told him he made a good business decision.
He in turn told me that I was right to go to the police. It was an honourable finish. However, after the big boss had spoken to me,
he looked at Eddy and said something to him in Nyanja. I didn’t know what he said, but by the way he
said it I could tell it was something bad.
Eddy handled it well and didn’t retaliate. Once we had walked away I asked Eddy what the
big boss said to him. He said it was difficult
to translate into English but it was something like, “Why are you helping the
driver when he forces you to sit in the trunk?”
The big boss had thought that Eddy was my worker and the only reason he
was helping me was to save his job. I
wish I had known that earlier. I would
have given the money to Eddy in front of the big bosses face. That would have changed his view of things
I’m sure. I did end up giving half the
money to Eddy anyway. He had endured
some hardship to help me so I felt it was the least I could do.
When I got back from Zambia, Flying Mission
held its AGM (Annual General Meeting).
This was a big deal this year because we were going to vote on our new
CEO candidate. John and Yvonne Lubbe are
planning to leave there position as CEO to Flying Mission so we had setup a
search committee to find suitable replacements and those replacements were to
be introduced at the AGM. After much
talk and deliberation it was decided that the candidates, Mike and JoAnne Webb
would be accepted as our new CEO. Please
pray for them as they prepare to come at what I hear will be the end of August.
Another tidbit of news that I should have
mentioned earlier is my school application status. As it turns out I didn’t need an interview in
the end and was accepted to the program without any issues. I am due to start classes on September 8th. However, I was told that I was lacking in one
area of expertise, something called “Cisco training.” The department head felt I should do some
studying on that before I start in September so I’ve gone ahead and applied for an online course. This will enable me to
study here in Botswana and at home before my classes start. Please pray that I’d find time to do this
necessary studying to best prepare myself for my upcoming course.
With that said I think it’s time I wrapped
this letter up. Once again I’d like to
leave you with some prayer requests so I’ve listed them below.
1)
My mother – some of you have
asked about her status. They have
abandoned the idea of fixing the problem with her heart and feel a transplant is
the only solution. She sees a doctor on
Friday (May 22nd) who will decide if she is a candidate for a
transplant. If this is denied there is
nothing further that can be done. Please
pray that the Lord would allow her to go on the transplant list.
2)
5 weeks left! – Pray that my
last weeks here in Botswana would be good ones.
Pray that I would end well both in my work, ministries and
relationships.
3)
Zambia trip – Praise that I had
the chance to see my Zambian friends before I left.
4)
Online Course – Pray that I
would find time to master the information I need to know before classes start
in September.
5)
Accepted! – Praise that NAIT
have accepted me into the IT Management program
6)
King Air 200/Ambulance – Praise
that FM was able to get a new plane and a new ambulance. Pray that both assets would be used to bring
God glory.
7)
The Webbs’ – Pray for our new
CEO couple as say their good-bye’s (they are from Idaho) and prepare to come to
Botswana in August.
Lastly, I would like to take this time to
say thank you to all who have supported me during the last 5 years. It’s been quite the adventure! Speaking of support, most of you may know
that I will continue to be an SIM missionary while I’m at school so if you feel
led to continue supporting me during my study leave that would be most
appreciated. I will be covering my own
school fees so only my monthly living costs will need to be covered so I’ll
make that information available to you once I know what my needs will be.
Thanks again to all of you for being so
supportive during my time here in Botswana.
I look forward to seeing most of you in person very soon!
Peace and prayers,
Graham “Rapula” Crawford <><
For more info on SIM Canada visit: www.sim.ca
For more info on the Flying Mission visit: www.flyingmission.org



